In Breathing Under Water, mom with autistic son, college swimming star save each other
Mindy the Book Yenta reviews Jacqueline Friedland’s novel about a school administrator raising an autistic son and a college swimmer finding her way.
Mindy Holland
3
mins read time
Originally published at
The Jewish World

Breathing Under Water by Jacqueline Friedland tells the tale of Berry, a worried assistant principal caring for her autistic son.
In Breathing Under Water, mom with autistic son, college swimming star save each other
By MINDY HOLLAND
(Mindy, the Book Yenta)
Last month, I attended the American Library Association Annual Conference. With more than 15,000 attendees and 600 vendors, it was the largest conference I’ve ever experienced. The fear of missing out (FOMO) set in the moment the exhibit hall opened. Free books were handed out as enthusiastically as hot dogs at a baseball game. Bestselling authors attracted lines hundreds of people long, all hoping to receive a complimentary signed copy. Books by debut and lesser-known writers were easy to scoop up as I wandered from booth to booth.
There was just one problem: the conference was in Chicago, and I had flown there. Every book I picked up had to fit within Southwest Airlines’ baggage weight limit - or be worth the cost of shipping home.
One book that made the cut was Breathing Under Water by Jacqueline Friedland. It became my airplane reading on the flight home. I had never heard of Friedland before, but I later discovered that this is her seventh novel. A former lawyer who returned to school to earn an MFA in creative writing, she lives in Westchester, N.Y. A little online searching also revealed that she is a proud member of the Jewish community.
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Two stories
Breathing Under Water follows two very different women, making it an engaging novel that would be an excellent choice for a multigenerational book club or a parent-older teen discussion.
As a middle-aged educator, I found myself relating to Berry, an assistant principal at a private school. She is ambitious and eager to advance her career, yet struggles with the guilt of knowing that a promotion would leave her with less time for her high school-aged autistic son. Berry’s marriage also takes an unexpected turn when her husband begins hiding his phone and his location no longer matches where he claims to be. The mystery isn’t what readers might expect, but it adds an intriguing layer of suspense.
Alternating chapters tell the story of McKenna, a college student balancing the pressures of being a scholar-athlete while caring for her grandmother. Although she excels as a competitive swimmer, she no longer enjoys the sport. Through McKenna, Friedland explores timely issues including student homelessness, the influence of college coaches, and the staggering cost of higher education.
Jewish identity
I especially appreciated that Berry’s Jewish identity is woven naturally into the story. It informs who she is without becoming the focus of her challenges, allowing her to be portrayed as a fully realized character whose Judaism is simply one part of her life.
How do these two women, at such different stages of life, become connected? I’ll leave that for readers to discover.
I recommend Breathing Under Water to anyone who enjoys contemporary realistic fiction, especially readers interested in nuanced family relationships and a thoughtful portrayal of a high-functioning autistic teenager.
Mindy the Book Yenta’s Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Jewish Rating: ✡✡

Mindy Holland, “Mindy the Book Yenta.”
Mindy Miner Holland is a school librarian at Shenendehowa Schools. She is the board chairwoman of the Jewish Federation of Northeastern NY. She is a past president of Congregation Gates of Heaven. She earned her master’s degree in library science from the University at Albany.
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Mindy Holland
3
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Originally published at
The Jewish World
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In Breathing Under Water, mom with autistic son, college swimming star save each other
Mindy the Book Yenta reviews Jacqueline Friedland’s novel about a school administrator raising an autistic son and a college swimmer finding her way.
Mindy Holland
3
mins read time
Originally published at
The Jewish World

Breathing Under Water by Jacqueline Friedland tells the tale of Berry, a worried assistant principal caring for her autistic son.
In Breathing Under Water, mom with autistic son, college swimming star save each other
By MINDY HOLLAND
(Mindy, the Book Yenta)
Last month, I attended the American Library Association Annual Conference. With more than 15,000 attendees and 600 vendors, it was the largest conference I’ve ever experienced. The fear of missing out (FOMO) set in the moment the exhibit hall opened. Free books were handed out as enthusiastically as hot dogs at a baseball game. Bestselling authors attracted lines hundreds of people long, all hoping to receive a complimentary signed copy. Books by debut and lesser-known writers were easy to scoop up as I wandered from booth to booth.
There was just one problem: the conference was in Chicago, and I had flown there. Every book I picked up had to fit within Southwest Airlines’ baggage weight limit - or be worth the cost of shipping home.
One book that made the cut was Breathing Under Water by Jacqueline Friedland. It became my airplane reading on the flight home. I had never heard of Friedland before, but I later discovered that this is her seventh novel. A former lawyer who returned to school to earn an MFA in creative writing, she lives in Westchester, N.Y. A little online searching also revealed that she is a proud member of the Jewish community.
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Two stories
Breathing Under Water follows two very different women, making it an engaging novel that would be an excellent choice for a multigenerational book club or a parent-older teen discussion.
As a middle-aged educator, I found myself relating to Berry, an assistant principal at a private school. She is ambitious and eager to advance her career, yet struggles with the guilt of knowing that a promotion would leave her with less time for her high school-aged autistic son. Berry’s marriage also takes an unexpected turn when her husband begins hiding his phone and his location no longer matches where he claims to be. The mystery isn’t what readers might expect, but it adds an intriguing layer of suspense.
Alternating chapters tell the story of McKenna, a college student balancing the pressures of being a scholar-athlete while caring for her grandmother. Although she excels as a competitive swimmer, she no longer enjoys the sport. Through McKenna, Friedland explores timely issues including student homelessness, the influence of college coaches, and the staggering cost of higher education.
Jewish identity
I especially appreciated that Berry’s Jewish identity is woven naturally into the story. It informs who she is without becoming the focus of her challenges, allowing her to be portrayed as a fully realized character whose Judaism is simply one part of her life.
How do these two women, at such different stages of life, become connected? I’ll leave that for readers to discover.
I recommend Breathing Under Water to anyone who enjoys contemporary realistic fiction, especially readers interested in nuanced family relationships and a thoughtful portrayal of a high-functioning autistic teenager.
Mindy the Book Yenta’s Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Jewish Rating: ✡✡

Mindy Holland, “Mindy the Book Yenta.”
Mindy Miner Holland is a school librarian at Shenendehowa Schools. She is the board chairwoman of the Jewish Federation of Northeastern NY. She is a past president of Congregation Gates of Heaven. She earned her master’s degree in library science from the University at Albany.
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Mindy Holland
3
mins read time
Originally published at
The Jewish World
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In Breathing Under Water, mom with autistic son, college swimming star save each other
Mindy the Book Yenta reviews Jacqueline Friedland’s novel about a school administrator raising an autistic son and a college swimmer finding her way.
Mindy Holland
3
mins read time
Originally published at
The Jewish World

Breathing Under Water by Jacqueline Friedland tells the tale of Berry, a worried assistant principal caring for her autistic son.
In Breathing Under Water, mom with autistic son, college swimming star save each other
By MINDY HOLLAND
(Mindy, the Book Yenta)
Last month, I attended the American Library Association Annual Conference. With more than 15,000 attendees and 600 vendors, it was the largest conference I’ve ever experienced. The fear of missing out (FOMO) set in the moment the exhibit hall opened. Free books were handed out as enthusiastically as hot dogs at a baseball game. Bestselling authors attracted lines hundreds of people long, all hoping to receive a complimentary signed copy. Books by debut and lesser-known writers were easy to scoop up as I wandered from booth to booth.
There was just one problem: the conference was in Chicago, and I had flown there. Every book I picked up had to fit within Southwest Airlines’ baggage weight limit - or be worth the cost of shipping home.
One book that made the cut was Breathing Under Water by Jacqueline Friedland. It became my airplane reading on the flight home. I had never heard of Friedland before, but I later discovered that this is her seventh novel. A former lawyer who returned to school to earn an MFA in creative writing, she lives in Westchester, N.Y. A little online searching also revealed that she is a proud member of the Jewish community.
ADVERTISEMENT
Two stories
Breathing Under Water follows two very different women, making it an engaging novel that would be an excellent choice for a multigenerational book club or a parent-older teen discussion.
As a middle-aged educator, I found myself relating to Berry, an assistant principal at a private school. She is ambitious and eager to advance her career, yet struggles with the guilt of knowing that a promotion would leave her with less time for her high school-aged autistic son. Berry’s marriage also takes an unexpected turn when her husband begins hiding his phone and his location no longer matches where he claims to be. The mystery isn’t what readers might expect, but it adds an intriguing layer of suspense.
Alternating chapters tell the story of McKenna, a college student balancing the pressures of being a scholar-athlete while caring for her grandmother. Although she excels as a competitive swimmer, she no longer enjoys the sport. Through McKenna, Friedland explores timely issues including student homelessness, the influence of college coaches, and the staggering cost of higher education.
Jewish identity
I especially appreciated that Berry’s Jewish identity is woven naturally into the story. It informs who she is without becoming the focus of her challenges, allowing her to be portrayed as a fully realized character whose Judaism is simply one part of her life.
How do these two women, at such different stages of life, become connected? I’ll leave that for readers to discover.
I recommend Breathing Under Water to anyone who enjoys contemporary realistic fiction, especially readers interested in nuanced family relationships and a thoughtful portrayal of a high-functioning autistic teenager.
Mindy the Book Yenta’s Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Jewish Rating: ✡✡

Mindy Holland, “Mindy the Book Yenta.”
Mindy Miner Holland is a school librarian at Shenendehowa Schools. She is the board chairwoman of the Jewish Federation of Northeastern NY. She is a past president of Congregation Gates of Heaven. She earned her master’s degree in library science from the University at Albany.
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Mindy Holland
3
mins read time
Originally published at
The Jewish World
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In Breathing Under Water, mom with autistic son, college swimming star save each other
Mindy the Book Yenta reviews Jacqueline Friedland’s novel about a school administrator raising an autistic son and a college swimmer finding her way.
Mindy Holland
3
mins read time
Originally published at
The Jewish World

Breathing Under Water by Jacqueline Friedland tells the tale of Berry, a worried assistant principal caring for her autistic son.
In Breathing Under Water, mom with autistic son, college swimming star save each other
By MINDY HOLLAND
(Mindy, the Book Yenta)
Last month, I attended the American Library Association Annual Conference. With more than 15,000 attendees and 600 vendors, it was the largest conference I’ve ever experienced. The fear of missing out (FOMO) set in the moment the exhibit hall opened. Free books were handed out as enthusiastically as hot dogs at a baseball game. Bestselling authors attracted lines hundreds of people long, all hoping to receive a complimentary signed copy. Books by debut and lesser-known writers were easy to scoop up as I wandered from booth to booth.
There was just one problem: the conference was in Chicago, and I had flown there. Every book I picked up had to fit within Southwest Airlines’ baggage weight limit - or be worth the cost of shipping home.
One book that made the cut was Breathing Under Water by Jacqueline Friedland. It became my airplane reading on the flight home. I had never heard of Friedland before, but I later discovered that this is her seventh novel. A former lawyer who returned to school to earn an MFA in creative writing, she lives in Westchester, N.Y. A little online searching also revealed that she is a proud member of the Jewish community.
ADVERTISEMENT
Two stories
Breathing Under Water follows two very different women, making it an engaging novel that would be an excellent choice for a multigenerational book club or a parent-older teen discussion.
As a middle-aged educator, I found myself relating to Berry, an assistant principal at a private school. She is ambitious and eager to advance her career, yet struggles with the guilt of knowing that a promotion would leave her with less time for her high school-aged autistic son. Berry’s marriage also takes an unexpected turn when her husband begins hiding his phone and his location no longer matches where he claims to be. The mystery isn’t what readers might expect, but it adds an intriguing layer of suspense.
Alternating chapters tell the story of McKenna, a college student balancing the pressures of being a scholar-athlete while caring for her grandmother. Although she excels as a competitive swimmer, she no longer enjoys the sport. Through McKenna, Friedland explores timely issues including student homelessness, the influence of college coaches, and the staggering cost of higher education.
Jewish identity
I especially appreciated that Berry’s Jewish identity is woven naturally into the story. It informs who she is without becoming the focus of her challenges, allowing her to be portrayed as a fully realized character whose Judaism is simply one part of her life.
How do these two women, at such different stages of life, become connected? I’ll leave that for readers to discover.
I recommend Breathing Under Water to anyone who enjoys contemporary realistic fiction, especially readers interested in nuanced family relationships and a thoughtful portrayal of a high-functioning autistic teenager.
Mindy the Book Yenta’s Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Jewish Rating: ✡✡

Mindy Holland, “Mindy the Book Yenta.”
Mindy Miner Holland is a school librarian at Shenendehowa Schools. She is the board chairwoman of the Jewish Federation of Northeastern NY. She is a past president of Congregation Gates of Heaven. She earned her master’s degree in library science from the University at Albany.
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Mindy Holland
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